Compassionate Communication

When a child’s needs are being met, they are naturally compassionate, resourceful, and curious about the world. Unmet needs often result in feelings of frustration, fear or worry. To reestablish their balance and ease in the world, children need empathy, practical help, and the opportunity to express themselves without judgment. Staff offer children understanding, a chance to truly hear one another, and support in finding strategies for learning and being that meet everyone’s needs.

We believe in freedom, not license. 

Staff facilitates communication in ways that meet community needs for respect and safety. Children feel respected even when they do not get what they want.

• We assure the safety of everyone
• We listen for the underlying feelings and needs behind the behavior; and we help children do the same for themselves and each otherr
• We trust each child’s process and ability to work things out
• We give practical help through a language of observations, feelings, needs, and requests